Just a few years ago, it seemed like the formal dining room was a thing of the past. As life became less formal and takeout meals became more common, the space suddenly felt dated. But just when it seemed like the formal dining room was well and truly over, the pandemic struck and changed the way we view gatherings. “The pandemic has reminded us how special it is to come together at home and share meals,” says Paulina Hospod, president of New York-based Aha Interiors. Instead of grabbing a quick bite at the kitchen island, dining felt intentional and social again – a designated dining area became more attractive. “A formal dining room brings back the feeling of occasion and connection,” says Hospod.
However, it's not just the pandemic that caused the formal dining room to make a comeback. “After years of casual, open living, there is a new appreciation for spaces that feel special and stand out – places where families can gather, unwind and celebrate everyday meals and holidays alike,” says Mimi Meacham, founder and principal designer of Marian Louise Design in Houston. To get an insider industry perspective on this topic, we asked interior designers from across the country to share their opinions. The consensus is that the formal dining room is officially back—and it's a great place to add character and showcase your personal style.
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“Designers like me love the formal dining room because of the opportunity to create drama, make a statement and add personality through lighting, color and texture,” says Meacham. She shares that the space allows for beautiful design moments that set it apart from the rest of the home, whether it's through dramatic lighting, elegant furniture, or a statement wall feature. The visual demarcation of the room is not only a fun design statement, but also underlines the function of the room as a designated dining area. “In a world of casual living, these spaces provide a special setting for special occasions, encouraging connection and celebration,” says Brittany Farinas, creative director of Miami-based House of One.
This has surprising effects on the Away we eat. “For me, being in a dedicated formal dining room slows down the pace of a meal and invites you to linger and socialize for a while without the distraction of all the other spaces around you,” says Alex Thies, owner and creative director of Adelyn Charles Interiors in Bonita Springs, Florida. Instead of rushing through meals or being distracted by the sound of a running dishwasher, a defined dining area allows you to truly enjoy the moment with those around you. “It separates the everyday stuff from the activities in the kitchen and creates a calm, elegant atmosphere for hosting and family dinners,” says Meacham.
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Not only has the pandemic reminded us of the importance of coming together over food, it has also impacted the way many of us live at home. “Just as the pandemic has caused people to work from home more, it has also caused people to put more time and effort into their homes and therefore want to get back to entertaining in their homes as soon as they are able,” says Thies. While the formal dining room serves as a space for entertaining, making memories and enjoying everyday and holiday meals, Farinas points out another benefit: “It increases the value of your home.” When you consider your home's resale value, a formal dining room can be a big draw for buyers and get you more out of your home.
So the question is: is a formal dining room worth it? For Hospod, it's worth having it as long as it's actually used – and not just twice a year during the holidays. “It should act as an extension of the kitchen, whether open or closed, and feel like a natural part of everyday life,” she says.
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A major reason the formal dining room became almost a thing of the past is that it often felt too stuffy and precious. Designers say striking the right balance between style and comfort is crucial for today's formal dining rooms. “To make a formal dining room feel practical and inviting rather than precious, focus on comfort, versatility and warmth,” says Meacham.
Her advice is to choose upholstered or upholstered chairs that invite lingering, combine soft lighting for a welcoming ambience, and combine sophisticated pieces with relaxed textures. When it comes to seating, follow Thies' advice and consider durability. “Use high-performance fabrics that stand up to wear and tear so your guests don’t have to worry about their wine spilling,” says the designer. To complete the space, Meacham says, “A beautiful rug and a few personal touches will help the space feel lived in and loved, not just reserved for special occasions.”
Maria Sabella is a lifestyle writer with a passion for home and interior design – from colors and holiday decor to the latest design trends. Her work has appeared in branches, among others Better homes and gardensThe Spruce, BuzzFeed and Bustle.